Is That Your Phone?

Is That Your Phone?

In many instances, access to a cell phone has made our lives easier. They provide conveniences to rather complicated situations. Being able to reach a loved one in difficult times, checking on your teenager who broke curfew,    and alerting the authorities to trouble are just a few of the many times we are glad to be connected. Cell phones offer comfort in worrisome times. In today’s world, having a cell phone by your side is a normal thing.      Cell phones are a part of each of our lives. When needed, I am grateful.

But – here are some things I do not like:

1. Have you been in a restaurant and everyone in the place is on the phone? They have an opportunity to talk with their fellow diners and they are looking down at their phones. I do not like this.
2. Have you ever been in a movie theater and someone’s phone rang? I do not like this.
3. I was sitting on an ORAL BOARD once. The phone belonging to the person in the hot seat rang. Yes – he asked if he could take that call. What is wrong with this picture?
4. I have never enjoyed being privy to someone’s conversation as they talk to their friend about something that is none of my business.
5. I do not understand why some folks would rather record an event rather than watch it first-hand.
6. What is up with all the selfies? When did a selfie become so important?
7. I hate it when I am trying to reach someone, and their mailbox is constantly full. You read that right – CONSTANTLY FULL!

You might call me a stick in the mud, out of touch, or even old-fashioned. But – I am who I am. You also might be wondering why a retired, career Fire Captain who is responsible for the Private Coaching at eatstress.com, a Firefighter Test Prep Program, is concerned about phones. I am not. If you want one. Get one. If you want to carry it everywhere, be my guest. If you are into selfies, post away! Good for you.

But, when the Chief calls you to offer you a spot in the department, answer your phone.  If you are unable to answer, make certain your mailbox is not full. Make sure your outgoing message is easy to understand, states your name, and gives clear and concise instructions about leaving a message. Make certain you check your messages regularly. And, lastly, remember this – the chief will not wait. Don’t mess it up.

As Fire Captain Bob always says. “Nothing matters until you have the badge….and, I mean nothing.”

Fire Captain Rob